How can i tell if he likes me?

i'm attracted to my bestfriend at my school and i want to know if he likes me..i'm a freshman boy in highschool. Like there are signs that make me think that he is but sometimes he pretends he's just joking...i'll make it easy by listing them.. 1. he almost always has to touch me. 2. one time in the locker room after track practice me, him, and my other friend were in there and my other friend turned out the lights and while they were off 'he' kissed me on the cheek and just laughed it off. 3. when i go over to his house or him to mine and we go to sleep we spoon. 4. he's showed me his penis 5. sometimes he like pretend humps me but he also does it with other guys sometimes. 6. he always has to do what i'm doing..like if we are someplace and one of my friends is like hey lets do this and he goes off and does it and i go somewhere else he'll go with me. 7. we sometimes play rough footsies 8. he has brown emo like hair but it's always been that way and he's not emo. 9. we've only known each other for a year but it feels like and he acts like we've known each other forever..now here are signs that i don't think he's gay... 1. he likes football 2. he's really athletic 3. the only music he really listens to is screamo (except the other day when he started singing a katy perry song that only someone that listens to her whole cd would know and then he pretended he didn't know the name of the song) 3. he really doesn't have a lot of girl friends and he doesn't date a lot of girls and no girls in my school like him.. i just want to know if he's gay or if he might be interested in me